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		<title>By: Sharon Ball</title>
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		<dc:creator>Sharon Ball</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 24 Nov 2009 16:56:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>It&#039;s amazing how addicitive Facebook and Twitter can be if a person isn&#039;t careful. When I first started social networking I kind of overdosed on tweets and notifications, but thankfully I came back to my senses and have found balance. Reading your post gave me that extra pinch I needed to keep my mind focused on the bigger picture--writing.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It&#8217;s amazing how addicitive Facebook and Twitter can be if a person isn&#8217;t careful. When I first started social networking I kind of overdosed on tweets and notifications, but thankfully I came back to my senses and have found balance. Reading your post gave me that extra pinch I needed to keep my mind focused on the bigger picture&#8211;writing.</p>
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		<title>By: Jeanette Sharp</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jeanette Sharp</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 20 Nov 2009 15:41:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Oh my! You voiced what I&#039;ve been thinking for weeks now. Your post convicted me mightily! As of right now, I&#039;m going to adopt your thoughts on Facebook and kick the habit! I&#039;ll measure my former frittered away time with the productivity of my writing accomplishments with the before and limited Facebook time. I&#039;ll let you know how it goes.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Oh my! You voiced what I&#8217;ve been thinking for weeks now. Your post convicted me mightily! As of right now, I&#8217;m going to adopt your thoughts on Facebook and kick the habit! I&#8217;ll measure my former frittered away time with the productivity of my writing accomplishments with the before and limited Facebook time. I&#8217;ll let you know how it goes.</p>
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		<title>By: Jessica</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jessica</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 18 Nov 2009 03:31:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Great post! I like Brandilyn&#039;s comment. We all waste time, there&#039;s just different ways to waste it. LOL! I got really sucked into the blogging world and I LOVE it so much that when I joined facebook I was careful to keep my networking there sparse. Kind of like how Krista does.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Great post! I like Brandilyn&#8217;s comment. We all waste time, there&#8217;s just different ways to waste it. LOL! I got really sucked into the blogging world and I LOVE it so much that when I joined facebook I was careful to keep my networking there sparse. Kind of like how Krista does.</p>
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		<title>By: Roxane B. Salonen</title>
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		<dc:creator>Roxane B. Salonen</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 18 Nov 2009 00:46:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Greetings Steve, I&#039;m new to your blog but what an interesting post. In fact, I&#039;m due to publish my &quot;Writing Wednesdays&quot; post on my blog tonight and I think you&#039;ve just given me fodder for that essay. You&#039;ve brought up some excellent points, something all writers ought to consider and most likely have grappled with. Appreciate the spark!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Greetings Steve, I&#8217;m new to your blog but what an interesting post. In fact, I&#8217;m due to publish my &#8220;Writing Wednesdays&#8221; post on my blog tonight and I think you&#8217;ve just given me fodder for that essay. You&#8217;ve brought up some excellent points, something all writers ought to consider and most likely have grappled with. Appreciate the spark!</p>
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		<title>By: Margo Carmichael</title>
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		<dc:creator>Margo Carmichael</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 17 Nov 2009 15:56:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Yes! And maybe not. I keep a window open on FB a lot of the time and think of it as the watercooler. I even have it filed in my Favorites under Watercooler, along with some others. 

I&#039;m a people person and I have to have a sip and a hi every so often in this secluded work of writing. 

My dot may be green, but I may not be there. I may be watching Cesar.  : )</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yes! And maybe not. I keep a window open on FB a lot of the time and think of it as the watercooler. I even have it filed in my Favorites under Watercooler, along with some others. </p>
<p>I&#8217;m a people person and I have to have a sip and a hi every so often in this secluded work of writing. </p>
<p>My dot may be green, but I may not be there. I may be watching Cesar.  : )</p>
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		<title>By: Mary Hampton</title>
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		<dc:creator>Mary Hampton</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 17 Nov 2009 09:22:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>You&#039;re right Steve. I just joined FB a few months ago (shortly before Mt. Hermon; I felt like it was kind of required!). It&#039;s been a good thing for lots of reasons, but I can definitely spend unwarranted amounts of time checking in. I&#039;m trying to set reasonable parameters for it like I ultimately did with blogging/visiting blogs.

This quote made me laugh though:

&quot;It will also keep your agent or your editor from posting a comment on your wall like &#039;What are you doing here? You are on a deadline!&#039;&quot;

It works both ways--there&#039;ve been a few times I&#039;ve seen FB or Twitter activity and I&#039;m thinking &quot;I know you&#039;re there--answer my email!&quot; 

(You in the general sense, not the specific YOU, Steve Laube sense, lest anyone confuse my quest for email replies from the unknown &#039;you&#039; with their own quest for replies from the specific YOU.)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You&#8217;re right Steve. I just joined FB a few months ago (shortly before Mt. Hermon; I felt like it was kind of required!). It&#8217;s been a good thing for lots of reasons, but I can definitely spend unwarranted amounts of time checking in. I&#8217;m trying to set reasonable parameters for it like I ultimately did with blogging/visiting blogs.</p>
<p>This quote made me laugh though:</p>
<p>&#8220;It will also keep your agent or your editor from posting a comment on your wall like &#8216;What are you doing here? You are on a deadline!&#8217;&#8221;</p>
<p>It works both ways&#8211;there&#8217;ve been a few times I&#8217;ve seen FB or Twitter activity and I&#8217;m thinking &#8220;I know you&#8217;re there&#8211;answer my email!&#8221; </p>
<p>(You in the general sense, not the specific YOU, Steve Laube sense, lest anyone confuse my quest for email replies from the unknown &#8216;you&#8217; with their own quest for replies from the specific YOU.)</p>
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		<title>By: Brandilyn Collins</title>
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		<dc:creator>Brandilyn Collins</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 13 Nov 2009 18:56:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Steve, you make a great point about what’s been subtracted. For me—it’s kids at home. Ten years ago our daughter was ten and our son was 17. My work had to be scheduled around taking to school, picking up from school, afternoon activities, just hanging out with the kids. etc. Now we’re empty nesters. This is a way different time in my life, when I have all day to work. Never had that before. In those years I couldn’t have done all the marketing I do now.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Steve, you make a great point about what’s been subtracted. For me—it’s kids at home. Ten years ago our daughter was ten and our son was 17. My work had to be scheduled around taking to school, picking up from school, afternoon activities, just hanging out with the kids. etc. Now we’re empty nesters. This is a way different time in my life, when I have all day to work. Never had that before. In those years I couldn’t have done all the marketing I do now.</p>
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		<title>By: Steve Laube</title>
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		<dc:creator>Steve Laube</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 12 Nov 2009 20:20:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Brandilyn makes an excellent point. But she is one smart whipper-snapper and obviously disciplined enough to set and meet daily word counts.

What spurred this blog was simply wondering how authors were going about prioritizing things. Since social networking is something new it has become something &quot;added.&quot; And if something is added, something is usually subtracted. My question is &quot;what has been subtracted?&quot;

I&#039;m not necessarily arguing against Facebook or Twitter. Only that it be used wisely.

Some of us have &quot;addictive&quot; personalities and the snare of social networking can become an addiction if one isn&#039;t careful.

Loving the discussion here. I hope that my words cause each reader to pause briefly and ask themselves the appropriate questions.

Steve</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Brandilyn makes an excellent point. But she is one smart whipper-snapper and obviously disciplined enough to set and meet daily word counts.</p>
<p>What spurred this blog was simply wondering how authors were going about prioritizing things. Since social networking is something new it has become something &#8220;added.&#8221; And if something is added, something is usually subtracted. My question is &#8220;what has been subtracted?&#8221;</p>
<p>I&#8217;m not necessarily arguing against Facebook or Twitter. Only that it be used wisely.</p>
<p>Some of us have &#8220;addictive&#8221; personalities and the snare of social networking can become an addiction if one isn&#8217;t careful.</p>
<p>Loving the discussion here. I hope that my words cause each reader to pause briefly and ask themselves the appropriate questions.</p>
<p>Steve</p>
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		<title>By: Brandilyn Collins</title>
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		<dc:creator>Brandilyn Collins</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 12 Nov 2009 20:13:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I find Facebook very effective in connecting with readers and finding new readers. I update through Twitter.

Facebook is also a wonderful way to procrastinate if one is so inclined. On the other hand, using it as an effective marketing tool doesn&#039;t have to take all that long per day.

The general arguments I hear against social media go along the same lines as the article you mention, Steve. &quot;If authors didn&#039;t use up all that time on social media, they&#039;d write more.&quot; For me that&#039;s not true. I think back ten years ago when I didn&#039;t run a blog, Twitter and Facebook. Did I turn out books any faster? No. Today I still have daily word counts and manage to turn in my books by deadline. 

For me it&#039;s not a matter of using the time to write more because I can only create so many hours a day. Then I need to do something else. So the best choice for me is to use that &quot;something else&quot; time marketing what I&#039;ve written.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I find Facebook very effective in connecting with readers and finding new readers. I update through Twitter.</p>
<p>Facebook is also a wonderful way to procrastinate if one is so inclined. On the other hand, using it as an effective marketing tool doesn&#8217;t have to take all that long per day.</p>
<p>The general arguments I hear against social media go along the same lines as the article you mention, Steve. &#8220;If authors didn&#8217;t use up all that time on social media, they&#8217;d write more.&#8221; For me that&#8217;s not true. I think back ten years ago when I didn&#8217;t run a blog, Twitter and Facebook. Did I turn out books any faster? No. Today I still have daily word counts and manage to turn in my books by deadline. </p>
<p>For me it&#8217;s not a matter of using the time to write more because I can only create so many hours a day. Then I need to do something else. So the best choice for me is to use that &#8220;something else&#8221; time marketing what I&#8217;ve written.</p>
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		<title>By: Lynnda Ell</title>
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		<dc:creator>Lynnda Ell</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 12 Nov 2009 17:14:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Oh, Steve, you did step on my toes. The two &quot;Ps&quot; - priorities and procrastination - are my down fall and social networking knocks down my priorities and reinforces my procrastination.

Thanks for permission NOT to try doing everything.

Be blessed,

Lynnda</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Oh, Steve, you did step on my toes. The two &#8220;Ps&#8221; &#8211; priorities and procrastination &#8211; are my down fall and social networking knocks down my priorities and reinforces my procrastination.</p>
<p>Thanks for permission NOT to try doing everything.</p>
<p>Be blessed,</p>
<p>Lynnda</p>
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		<title>By: Becky Steiner</title>
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		<dc:creator>Becky Steiner</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 12 Nov 2009 16:19:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks Steve for these insightful, and freeing comments regarding Facebook, and even social networking in general! As a beginning author, I&#039;m inundated with advice to &quot;get my name&quot; out there through Twitter, Facebook, blogging, etc.... Though I agree, social networking is crucial, but not when it takes away from my time of perfecting my manuscript and reading/studying the works of gifted authors. 

BTW, I&#039;m learning a lot about the publishing industry by following your blog. Thank you.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks Steve for these insightful, and freeing comments regarding Facebook, and even social networking in general! As a beginning author, I&#8217;m inundated with advice to &#8220;get my name&#8221; out there through Twitter, Facebook, blogging, etc&#8230;. Though I agree, social networking is crucial, but not when it takes away from my time of perfecting my manuscript and reading/studying the works of gifted authors. </p>
<p>BTW, I&#8217;m learning a lot about the publishing industry by following your blog. Thank you.</p>
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		<title>By: Georgiana Daniels</title>
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		<dc:creator>Georgiana Daniels</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 12 Nov 2009 15:29:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Great point!

I closed my FB account because it was such a time waster. Besides, chucking turkey legs at my friends was only fun for so long.

But now that you mention it, I could watch all 158 episodes of Dick Van Dyke and feel it was time well spent :D</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Great point!</p>
<p>I closed my FB account because it was such a time waster. Besides, chucking turkey legs at my friends was only fun for so long.</p>
<p>But now that you mention it, I could watch all 158 episodes of Dick Van Dyke and feel it was time well spent <img src='http://www.stevelaube.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_biggrin.gif' alt=':D' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Cindy Woodsmall</title>
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		<dc:creator>Cindy Woodsmall</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 12 Nov 2009 14:45:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;ve honestly wondered if the way I do Facebook causes friends and fans to feel slighted, ignored, and perhaps offended. I certainly hope not. It&#039;d be awful to lose friends and fans over socializing faux pas when one hasn&#039;t even left the chair in their office. 

I enjoy Facebook a lot more than I thought I would. But it appears competition doesn&#039;t just take place in the writing and selling of books; it&#039;s now a part of who can socialize the most. That puts people like me, who tend to &quot;socialize&quot; as often as I take a night off, at a disadvantage. 

But the flip side of that is it can be rejuvenating when on deadline to go to Facebook and chat with friends for a few minutes...or come by Steve Laube&#039;s site and say hello to my favorite agent. Now, after I&#039;ve said that, how can you say to me, “What are you doing here? You are on a deadline!”? 

Deadline: this Tuesday
Current word count:83,755
Expected word count: 106,000
What am I doing here leaving a comment?! You must stop posting interesting blogs! Yeah, that&#039;s it, Steve, this detour I&#039;ve taken is all your fault. 

She submitted the comment while mumbling something about faux pas and agents and hopeless deadlines.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;ve honestly wondered if the way I do Facebook causes friends and fans to feel slighted, ignored, and perhaps offended. I certainly hope not. It&#8217;d be awful to lose friends and fans over socializing faux pas when one hasn&#8217;t even left the chair in their office. </p>
<p>I enjoy Facebook a lot more than I thought I would. But it appears competition doesn&#8217;t just take place in the writing and selling of books; it&#8217;s now a part of who can socialize the most. That puts people like me, who tend to &#8220;socialize&#8221; as often as I take a night off, at a disadvantage. </p>
<p>But the flip side of that is it can be rejuvenating when on deadline to go to Facebook and chat with friends for a few minutes&#8230;or come by Steve Laube&#8217;s site and say hello to my favorite agent. Now, after I&#8217;ve said that, how can you say to me, “What are you doing here? You are on a deadline!”? </p>
<p>Deadline: this Tuesday<br />
Current word count:83,755<br />
Expected word count: 106,000<br />
What am I doing here leaving a comment?! You must stop posting interesting blogs! Yeah, that&#8217;s it, Steve, this detour I&#8217;ve taken is all your fault. </p>
<p>She submitted the comment while mumbling something about faux pas and agents and hopeless deadlines.</p>
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		<title>By: Steve Laube</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 12 Nov 2009 03:54:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Krista makes a good point...but most folks are not this disciplined.

72 hours a year equals 23 minutes a day, six days a week. I suspect many spend much more than that per week on Facebook.

To Lenore&#039;s question. Expect a prospective editor or agent to look at your web site, your Facebook page, MySpace, etc. They will Google you without exception. So the more professional and exceptional your web presence is, the more appealing you will be to a prospective agent or editor.

But ultimately it is about putting great words on a page, telling a great story, or addressing a pressing need.

Steve</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Krista makes a good point&#8230;but most folks are not this disciplined.</p>
<p>72 hours a year equals 23 minutes a day, six days a week. I suspect many spend much more than that per week on Facebook.</p>
<p>To Lenore&#8217;s question. Expect a prospective editor or agent to look at your web site, your Facebook page, MySpace, etc. They will Google you without exception. So the more professional and exceptional your web presence is, the more appealing you will be to a prospective agent or editor.</p>
<p>But ultimately it is about putting great words on a page, telling a great story, or addressing a pressing need.</p>
<p>Steve</p>
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		<title>By: Krista Phillips</title>
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		<dc:creator>Krista Phillips</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 12 Nov 2009 01:23:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I use twitter more than facebook, because it&#039;s almost seamless for me... I update my status there which takes two minutes... 1 to type it and another to glance through recent tweets. It feeds to my facebook, and I only check it once a day if that. What I DON&#039;T do is any of the other &quot;applications&quot;... 

Blogs are what sucks up most of my time (See? I&#039;m reading yours... can you hear my time being slurped away??)

Must find a balance, I know. 

Now, off to write!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I use twitter more than facebook, because it&#8217;s almost seamless for me&#8230; I update my status there which takes two minutes&#8230; 1 to type it and another to glance through recent tweets. It feeds to my facebook, and I only check it once a day if that. What I DON&#8217;T do is any of the other &#8220;applications&#8221;&#8230; </p>
<p>Blogs are what sucks up most of my time (See? I&#8217;m reading yours&#8230; can you hear my time being slurped away??)</p>
<p>Must find a balance, I know. </p>
<p>Now, off to write!</p>
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